It might be, or it might be the gold OTHERS in your family have sent back. Whatever the case the gold is no longer the property of those that earned it and is now free to be distributed according to the whims of the crazy old patriarch in the family home.
I would suggest that if you are outside your realm, and require family aid to pay your men, you planned poorly and don't necessarily deserve a "save my unit" button.
Well, yes and no.
The "save my unit" button is PART of the planning, and a privilege of being wealthy. The problem comes when you use it to stay away for extended periods, and then taxes are called leaving you with useless bonds that block you.
Fortunately, we can always loot
(except for those of you unlucky enough to have a "mob" of 20 peasants blocks 800 fighting men repeatedly
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