You're KINO– King In Name Only.
The loudest voice from your realm, who commands the most sway with the nobles, is the King. Period. Until Grimrog starts talking and countering Glaumring's policies, Glaumring will still be the archon of Asylon.
I have next to no understanding of Asylon internal politics, but this is definitely the way it seems to be from the perspective of my D'Haran character. It appears Glaumring said 'lets go to war' and Grimrog said 'well if you say so.'
