There are rumours of realms that love peace because the majority of the nobles are sending gold to the family and thus the realm is poorly equipped to fight a war for example.
Conquer them.
Really, this is a game of war and conflict. There is a very simple, straightforward solution to all of these problems. You just have to get your lazy ass up and do something in-game instead of in the forum. The game isn't "won" (by any definition) on the forum.