Estimating D'Hara on current military might is not a good indicator of our capacity. We made it a policy to recruit as little as possible so as to accumulate as much wealth as possible. We have lots of spare gold waiting for a reason to be spent, and lots of families who are really rich and have nowhere to invest in.
In any case, from what I've seen, I'd put
#1 Aurvandil
#2 Morek
#3 Astrum (having a crapload of regions doesn't make for an effective army)
Should host a tournament if you have so much gold!.