Haha, no worries! Welcome to the family, Dwarf-brother!
Have you decided where you're going?
If you're looking for the B12ers, we're mostly in the Dwilight serious-RP server but their home region of Summerdale just got ROFLSTOMPED by Morek-Libero, so they're all over now. I'm a Lord and leader of an Army in Terran, so you're always welcome to join me and take an estate in my region and I'll do my best to mentor you on how the game works and the little tips and tricks. :-) There's other servers too, continents as they're called, and each one has its own interesting politics. I'd say the two best are Belluaterra, which is invaded by demons a-la-Dragonage once in a while, and Dwilight, which is the one-noble-per-person serious-medieval-behavior server. No, thou doth needeth speak as did thyne ancestors, m'lord. None of that bull!@#$. It just means you're expected to behave in a proper manner and the server is more devious, ambition-filled, and entertaining than the others ;-)
If you hit Belluaterra later on, since you can't start in Bellua but instead must emigrate a character there manually, I'm about to start an epic religion in Riombara on Belluaterra and you're welcome to crusade with me :-P
Root around the forum a bit and get to know the players. A great way to find out which server you'd like to join (and of course you get multiple characters, and as you play longer and gain fame you unlock more and more character slots! I have 3 nobles and an adventurer and I'm about to unlock a 4th noble :-D) is to check the specific servers' forums and lurk in their political/etc discussions. :-P Watch everyone argue, show off, joke around, and generally have fun about what's going on in current wars and roleplays, see who you do and don't like and find someone to settle. :-)
Enjoy, and welcome to the B12-BM family!