OK, here's how I read the exchange.
You: "Some of the Lurian exiles would not describe Luria as a civilized place."
Solari: "Well, I would hardly expect those of them who are cheaters and/or OOC buddies to do so. Were they who you meant?"
I did not meant "some". I did not write any nuance in that comment (mind you, I rarely nuance my words). In this case, I really did mean "all of the lurian exiles don't consider the Lurias to be a civilized place". All of those that I heard of, at least, and I think I heard them all speak. In any case, I really was referring to all of them.