Nevermind I found out what I needed on the wiki...sorry for that...it took me a bit. any suggestions on how to up my honour and prestige easily?
For new players, join the home maintenance army and fight the monsters, undead.
This will help you a bit in honour and prestige.
Then the next step is join in to fight for your realm against another realm.
The longer you are in the realm, high honour and prestige wise, the more options you have access to. Hope this help.