Astrum tried as hard as it could to ignore Asylon at every turn. We didn't care about Asylon. No one cared about Asylon. You could have stayed there in Echiur for all of time, and never sent a single letter, and no one would have cared. You never would have come into conflict with anyone. The only wars you ever got in were wars you stuck your nose in. And, like Geronus says, there's nothing wrong with that, and it's all good.
Stop blaming the results of your own paranoia on everyone else. You want war? Great. We all do. But at least here on the forum, you could do everyone the common courtesy of not accusing us all of lying to you and metagaming our asses off. At least Grimrog has the balls to take responsibility, and credit, for what he does, and not blame everyone else.