Scarlett, I read through Roleplaying Guidelines and SMA, which Allison adheres to the best that I know. The only issue was titles/forms of address which even has stated with it,
The most important part about this, however, is to create and sustain the proper atmosphere, not to be fanatic about names or titles.
By the way when I checker the RP primer, it also stated:
Mistakes and slips of the tongue were commonplace and often overlooked.
So instead of being an ass over titles you could complement Allison on being the most medieval noble in BM there is (or at least that I know of).