... are we still talking about OOC connections to spy? Or are there really people out there who join a realm just to spy for an IC connection?
You've been in this game for over 10 years, and you can doubt this?
Either way, In my experience, it'll be the guy with a family member in the other realm, or the guy that just joined you from an enemy realm, or the guy that just joined you plain. Anyone you don't know basically. And you should know everyone, realms really aren't that big anymore.
BS. There's no way you can "know everyone," because there's still a significant percentage of players who basically don't talk.
And regardless, that's meaningless. A
good spy will have you totally convinced that you "know him," when he's actually sending all your information to the enemy.
And no, great leadership and "winning the hearts" of spies isn't going to help, except in very isolated cases. We're talking about people joining realms with a built-in predisposition to distrust and even hate them—or at best, not care one whit about the people there or anything that happens to them. Because they're The Enemy. It's not like in real life, where an embedded spy can really get to know the
people around him, their kids, their hopes and dreams, their dog, the whole works, because these aren't really people. They're characters, and many of them can be pretty shallow characters. And the best characters, who are fleshed out and made more real, have this done for them through RP. RP which the spy will probably just skim through to make sure it doesn't contain any useful intelligence, and beyond that, ignore. Because why should he care?
Your ideas are nice ones, Lorgan, but they just don't hold up to scrutiny in light of practical experience in BattleMaster.