Yes, Outer Tilog is different.
However, everything we do is fun based, and involves interaction. Not just turning up in the realm, saying nothing to anyone, and *within 5 minutes of arriving in the realm* going and stabbing an ally.
It screams out OOC behaviour and is certainly not the way I would expect to play with friends. All it would have taken would have been a short RP beforehand to give it some flavour and I would not have any issue with it. that didn't happen and it just comes across as a bit pathetic...