I don't know if a stumbled upon a bug or something.
My character was member of Cathay on FEI, and then joined Arcachon. Despite the realms having neutral relations to eachother, the character got no automatic ban from Cathay.
Has the code changed? I remember getting bans even for joining a realm which the original realm had "peace" with and still getting an automatic ban.
Holy !@#$, when's the last time you switched realms? That changed *years* ago. Like in 2007 or so. Guess you must have really liked the realms you played in.