Let us also not forget that "I want more land" is a perfectly legitimate IC reason to declare war. And the longer I play the game, the more I find that "gangbangs" are what people call it when their realm gets outmaneuvered politically. Yes, I'd like to see more equal wars, but given the mind-numbingly idiotic things I see realms and Rulers doing on a regular basis, I get more than a little sick of people complaining about how they're getting hammered when they brought it on themselves. My preference to see fewer gangbangs isn't going to get in my characters' way when someone calls his ally a peasant whore.
