By this argument, you're saying that it's OK for the Judge to declare "If you go to the tournament you will be banned" as long as the judge never actually bans anyone.
Absolutely. Then (provided the Magistrates are contacted) we tell the judge that if someone is banned for that then action will be taken against him/her. Like action for like action. He only said it so Magistrates only give a warning. To remind him/her of the IR if nothing else. Until someone is actually banned let them hash it out IC - a crazy judge or whatever: It's my noble right to attend tournaments!
Pardon my French, but this is pure crapola. That is absolutely NOT acceptable.
Anyone stating in game anything like: "Ill ban you if you go to the tournament", "Don't go to the tournament", "Please don't go to the tournament", "I'll give you 1,000 gold if you don't go to the tournament" or "Going to the tournament is honoring the government of Evilstani, and anyone who does is a traitor to Keplerstan" are all clear and obvious IR violations. Several versions of these, including one similar to that last example, have been punished by the Titans.
I will grant part of your statement only so far as to say that the severity of the punishment should be commensurate with the scaope of the offense, and the experience level of the player. A newbie warrior.student who says something like "Why would anyone want to abandon their realm in a time of need to go to the tournament?" may deserve a public warning. (Any violation of the IR is severe enough to deserve a public warning, IMNSHO.) But an experienced player who's judge character says "I don't care if it's your noble right to go to a tournament, I'll ban you the instant you leave for the tournament." should certainly be removed from his position and probably bolted to boot.
A very important thing to remember: IRs are
not IC rights for the character. They are the
OOC rights of the player. They are tools intended to protect the fun of the
player. That is why you cannot deal with IR violations as an IC conflict. They have no application to IC behavior, and often forbid the character from doing exactly what the player thinks the character should do. They must be handled OOC as a player-player interaction by the Titans/Magistrates.
So, would your fanatically devoted warrior/hero who is defending his realm's capital in a last-ditch, desperate stand berate and degrade the noble who packs up and leaves to join the tournament being held in 9 days, calling him a coward in 22 different flowery and inventive ways, and promising to duel to the death the family members of everyone so gutless as to join the tournament? Of course he would. Would the Marshal who is frustrated with the apparent failure of the army to do their jobs, demand that the nobles of the army report their progress to him morning, noon and night? Doesn't seem too unreasonable.
But we as players have to take the IRs into account, and
NOT have our characters do that. We have to restrain the actions of our characters in ways that may seem contrary their natures. Because the IRs are OOC rules. They cannot, as a general rule, be adequately explained or handled IC.