It's not a question of doing "stupid" things. It's a question of behaving like a normal, hot-blooded, power-hungry medieval noble, and taking a chance when you see one. Or at least playing the game as if you had some purpose beyond logging in once a day and sending gold home, or whatever it is they do.
The problem with too many of these players is they got their titles simply by getting old.
Or... ambitious people realize that if they got lucky enough to become a duke, they are probably better off if they help put an ally in rulership than if they do it themselves? Dukes have the most power, but rulers always get all the blame.
Blame the game for preventing ruler/dukes in 99% of the cases. If that restriction gets lifted, *then* you would see a lot more dukes also seeking rulership. Otherwise, why risk such a powerful position to try to rule a post-rebellion devastated realm?
I just wonder about those players with characters who have had Rulers or Dukes for real life years and years -- do you guys brag to women in bars about it or something? Is it on your resume?
The way you cling to them and avoid any possibility of losing them, even at the loss of a chance to have a lot of fun and to share that fun with others makes me think it has some some sort of irrational, Real World importance to you.
What's up with that?
And you referring to me? Your usage of "you" following a quote of my messages makes it sound like it. I have not had rulers or dukes for years and years. While I got plenty of the other positions before, I only started getting more frequent dukeships this last year or so. As for rulerships, I've had two short experiences with two separate characters in the past (a month or less) and a four-month term one with a third character, 'till I seceded Iato to form Fheuv'n that is and who is now likely to conserve the title for a while.
For those who have been there for a long time, though, I'd say many of them are just too attached to their realm and consider that if they've ruled it to survive and thrive for so long, they must be doing something right, and that if they step down and the wrong person gets it, that person could totally screw up their realm and undo everything they've done. Not malice or greed. Mind you, it's also a risk-averse mentality, so I'm not saying it's something to promote either.