There are different results for different approaches you know. That's also why there are some people who are staying silent because not only did they apparently know how to get stuff from the daimons, they also are cunning enough to keep their advantages to themselves. If anyone, blame your fellow players who don't want to tell you what they know, because they're not under obligations not to tell you. They just feel like not telling you.
Anyway, if you really ask around you will find players who have had truly worthwhile interactions and got a lot. I wouldn't be surprised if someone out there among you has pieced together the "secret of Dwilight" already, and either doesn't want to speak up, or has done so and was dismissed as insignificant and/or crazy.
I don't think Dwilight will end up like past Invasions where they run their course and end, and we are still none the wiser. I have a hunch that if and when the Zuma's real purpose gets revealed, we will all know very clearly what their purpose is. It might not be anytime soon, and it might not be when we would like, but that's really how things go.
For a real world analogy, how much do you think you know about your country's secrets?
And finally, you know, Glaumring, you should really understand by now that your character's reaction to the situation in Kosht that seemingly pushed you over the edge, while understandable in human terms, was really not doing you any favors in the minds of beings that view humans as more or less insects. Like, what would you do if an ant said you took away its anthill when you moved into your new house? Probably take out the bug spray and kill that ant and all its kin, then wipe out the anthill. You seem not to care about that at all, or if you do, you seem to be convinced that such is the wrong perspective.
And for what Geronus wrote: You also can't control what people do with other human realms. Do you think you can control any more what someone with a grudge against you sends to, say, SA? And do you think you'd survive any better if SA crusades against you? Everguard, Thulsoma, Averoth, and Caerwyn have proven that no, you do not stand a chance of surviving. Who knows how much those events were influenced via human manipulation as well.
Human manipulation is everywhere. And everywhere there will be some power to manipulate. That's the name of the game for those manipulators. After all, if there wasn't some power that can be used against one's enemies, say, a weak power, why even bother? Only do it if it would actually work.