I would like to suggest you join an "evil" realm. Suggestions:
Outer Tilog (cannibal, etc)
Caligan Empire (bully empire)
Here are some "fun" realms:
Barony of Makar (drunken Vikings)
Struggling realms (sometimes it's fun to lose):
D'Hara/Barca/Terran/Kabrinskia
Assassins
Hammarsett/Coria
Ohnar West
Struggling isn't losing!
Neither Terran nor D'Hara lost any significant grounds to their enemies.
