If you put The House Of in your name, it is directly in violation of the naming rules as far as I remember. Other then that, most name violations only get caught if someone reports it. It could just be that since you started warring another nation, the name was noticed by someone new that reported it. There is no need to jump to the conclusion that OOC crap is happening due to 1 person getting a titan reprimand, unless you are saying Averoth is lost without you.
With regards to the army, in my opinion it is somewhat of a OOC clan issue if a large group of you always play together in realms in order to be a super effective strike force. To me part of the game is doing what you can in a realm with the nobility that ended up their, not calling in a team of elite players. Its not really against the rules, but that doesn't mean its good for the game.
