Sirion has a bad reputation
Caligus has a bad reputation (well its more me but Caligus is blamed)
Perdan has a bad reputation
Basically its all people overreacting and making things up. All realms have their own virtues and standards. Either you like them or dont like them. Most realms politics simply change with their ruler. This goes to every nation whether is a democracy or a monarchy. All it really takes is a change of rulers to influence change of politics for a realm and this is why Caligus 'changed' sides multiple times. Its basically a new ruler coming in mainly trying to do alot of questionable stuff and Dobromir takes on the form of a straightarrow where he is very unforgiving in being messed with or lied to. Likely comes down as Caligus being treasonous traitors to most of you but in the end Caligus does like and supports Dobromir alot. I know some people utterly hate the way I decide to rule that nation but (ex-enemies of Caligus the whole Tuchanon V group) love the way I rule and have told me that I make the game alot more enjoyable for them.
So give or take theres no way to make everyone happy in my opinion. Every realm gets a stigma and a bad reputation the moment it starts to influence politics. Its just the way things are.
From my part I see it as General its your job to better the enemy general on the field. As ruler its your job to secure the right alliances and stances and ensure your generals job is easier.
Anyways part of this is I randomly went on irc with a few people trash talking me OOC not even IC which I find quite sad and uncalled for. So apologies for the rant
