You fail to understand what abstain means.
I abstained because since i know first hand the ooc harass this player has received so my decision would be biased.Even after stating i abstained i still supported my opinion , abstaining to a voting does not mean silencing yourself.
I do believe there is something weird about your complain and the fact you twisted your own words on multiple occasions.
I believe these decisions are wrong and i am trying to fix that before a wrong decision becomes a pattern for others to use and take advantage of.
Actually, abstaining is the act of removing oneself from the process in which the voting is taking place... meaning yes, you did silence yourself. Besides which, you ARE a third party. You are not the accused or the accuser, therefore you are a separate party from the two, the very definition of third party. If there was harassment, bring up the proof, I don't know how many times we have to say it in this thread.
