For May 2013, Best realms to join ; Minas Leon. Now war has end so will be boring again.. Its hard to get lordship there, even if you active.. So, don't choose atamara..
If you want easy lordship (depend on which realm) but boring, go to Dwilight..
Beluaterra is special, and war just start (balance war).. We require more noble, as knight and region lord.. And you should join the republic of Fronen, there alot of potential, possibility.. Realm like Nothoi and Enweil also good to join.. Old Grekh is small, maybe boring.. Theres now war between Enweil, Fronen/ally vs riombara, small realm vs big realm..