Also as far as i know Silnaria sees her self as the real Coria, meaning the other is just regions the real Coria rejected.Not a realm.
Poor word choice. I can guarantee Silnaria didn't reject them at all.
As far as the actual issue at hand, I could see it fall either way (Not that I have authority...), depending on the definition of a realm meger:
- If it includes situations where you essentially give up what the realm needs to survive or perform this action to spite the enemy, then I'd say this is a violation. More concisely, any case where it's not a surrender (which requires you to concede to your enemy, not your friend next door).
- If it only matters whether or not the final region is handed over without resistance, then no, this is not a violation. No players had a say in the final region's turnover... it was automated.