Also can I get comments from people who aren't mods camping this subforum?
IMHO, I don't see the msgs as insulting or passive-aggressive. I see a player being critical and expressing frustration with a team mate. If you can't tell your team mate that you're pissed off at him, or that he's doing a piss-poor job, then it turns into passive aggression, like disregarding orders, ignoring messages, sarcasm, IC niggling, etc. From what little I've seen, there's nothing "passive" about Kai.