All I did is offer those who want to skip the tournament a reward and tried to express my feelings about what I think of people who want to tell me they "are honoring our ancestors by demonstrating our skills" in a torunament while our very realm is endangered! I agree that I overdid it a bit by saying "battering wooden swords against each others heads or grooming your favourite horse for the big day". Still nothing would have happened if I would have said it to my "cousin" in a RP.
If it is forbidden in this game to offer rewards than I really dont know who the !@#$ understood something wrong!