Why not just play it out?
If you are tired of the war, immigrate to somewhere else.
I don't know if it is just the way it seems to me, but since coming back to this game I see more "OOC fix-its" than any time I can think of. You've still got 37 nobles - the second most on the island - so someone must be sticking around for some reason.
If it's no fun, jump on a boat. Otherwise - what is happening is happening. Play through it, like was always expected of you in the past.
