This should have been the safest, most bland, inoffensive war that anyone could have dreamed up.
See, this, right here? This is what shows a total and utter lack of consciousness of current and recent (well, going back a ways into the last war) diplomatic events.
Just because
you think wiping out Ohnar West should be something that no one would ever care about doesn't make it so. And proceeding with this as one of your basic premises is, I think, what's leading you to be so frustrated and angry about the results.
My advice? Forget this idea entirely. Because it's totally wrong, and leading you into bad places.