no one in xavax ever said anything about rebelling against you, although the more blog-posts i see putting up internal discussions on forums, the more that ultimately pointless exercise becomes tempting.
most players play this game for the wars. some just for the rp, some like the priest game, whatever. it's not hard to have a little something for everyone, but if you don't have war you don't have a realm real quick.
chill, my dude, just chill. be like the fonz. what's the fonz like? he's cool