Diplomatic alliances mean nothing when there are regions up for grabs in the middle of invasions apparently
If we are both weak then there will be no recovery. A strong Fronen insures that Old Grehk survives. If your lands are left to fester and rot more rogues will rise and assail your realm. We can hold and maintain them, you clearly cannot. We are doing us both a favour, feeding Fronen and making sure that the monsters that spring up in those regions are taken care of. Deal with defending what you can. It is quite clear that Old Grehk can do nothing more than complain on the forums or in the ruler channel regarding the situation instead of actually doing something to reverse the problems assailing its own realm.