If you are ever involved in any way with a real-life harassment case, do not under ANY circumstances, EVER suggest to the person complaining that "you might just be being a bit too sensitive or too thin skinned"
Ever. Even if you don't understand why not, and 100% disagree with me, take my advice. NEVER say that.
In the meantime, I'd like to hear other people give opinions.
Can't agree more. Who decides whether what happened is offensive is the victim, not the offender. Always.
This question is never easy to deal with but I believe we have good solutions at BM.