this is the first time i have ever called out another player for this kind of thing, so i dont get the "all the time" comment
Some general frustration with not only yourself jumping to assuming ill intent of others so quickly may have bled through with that phrase and should not be taken personally. Sorry about that.
I agree with Anaris on if a more than 1-region duchy changes allegiance with a TOed region, the TOed region should, based on chance affected by TO progress and original realm loyalty, either auto-surrender or change to another duchy within the original realm. One-region duchies should be given the same 'only change to TOing realm' limitation.
