Propose a better solution then.
This is the only idea that is realistic at the moment.
The core issue still stands that the map is too big for everyone to freely expand. No matter what happens, people are going to be drastically effected to fix this.
If you resist the change by going against the whole point of the fix, then you should expect to be very unhappy, that's what Zakky is saying and unless people either realize this and stop or the people who are constantly trying to expand are killed or overtaken (basically prevented from expanding) this process is not going to end anytime soon. Either the players will commit suicide because they're too stubborn or they'll figure out how to make the game fun together (the way this game is supposed to work).
Once again, propose a better fix that is realistic with the people we have or figure out how to make the process smoother so we can move beyond this phase.
