The best RP's for me that work through in character and I've had the luck of having 2 RP partners in Oligarch where we RP quite regularly where you see a lot of the 'older' stuff return. Brings a nice form of consistency, but as said everyone has a different style.
As to your other remark:
-Two characters in love? A wedding is a great place for characters to interact.
Yeah we tried that once... It ended in a poisoning of a PM, a bloodbath and virtually eternal war afterwards
Best wedding ever