Little glories turn into great disappointments when you lead a charge to victory, but find out later you're only doing it because they want you to be target of 1574 damn archers.
Well I can only speak for myself (not sure how others do it, you know how the north does it) but everyone knows before they volunteer that they'll prob end up wounded and lose their men, talking about this specific measure.
But there are a great many possibilities in some realms while others provide none, that is true, some realms are harsh for new nobles to join which is sad, but others are great and provide activity/RP/opportunities beyond just lordships.
