No one is really saying you are having bad-wrong fun. Just speaking from hard earned experience. After playing for 10 straight years, I've seen a lot, and so have several others. From what we've seen, realms living in isolation, without PvP contact with other realms, tend to wither and die. There have been extremely few, if any, realms that have even survived, let alone thrived, on just RP. Those realms tend to just taper off and fade away. (Been there, done that. Auto-paused because of it...)
So, yes, you can live by yourself in Luria. I sincerely hope your realm thrives. But if (when) it doesn't, please remember some of this hard-won advice.
