So I wasn't able to find the rest of you but you know how there are red lines in the background of the maps in a circular grid pattern. Silver and I are in the bottom right section probably 25 rings from the center. If you do the demo Silver is to the top left of Dave and I'm just north of him.
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Also, I built 1 arc, 3 bulkfreighters, and 11 merchantmen on my first turn, what did you build?