Regarding the original post:
I actually kind of enjoy playing a character that is distinctly not all about toting soldiers about but is still a noble and doesn't have to slave away at the whole fatigue/rest side of things. Priests are fun that way.
Maybe a new class that is like the Courtier or trader. Limited unit sizes but with some of the priestly commands of rough equivalents? A kind of warrior holey man?
Regarding titles:
I love the custom titles but I still need SOMETHING to help me figure out what in the world some mean. Is a Tidspeaker a priest of a water focused religion or the Judge of sea faring kingdom?
