I hate to break it to you Chenier but not everyone reasons like you do 
I personally thought bans were awful so when I didn't like it somewhere I deleted the chars or emmigrated to another island. I see on my family history that it took me 7 months before I actually changed realms within the same island, and I believe I wasn't autobanned then because I went to an ally.
If you're new and you hear you can die after you've been banned, I think you'll do well to shy away from it. I would call it rational anyway.
Then as you become experienced, you learn how things work and you learn which rules to bend or break.
My logic was always "well, I just won't go back to these lands then, good riddance!"
