I'll try to give you guys something useful here because this topic always seems to draw its negativity and I might not always help the situation. So I'll attempt to explain what I am able to.
First off, it's true that anything and everything the daimons have done and (most likely) ever will do is dependent on what humans do to them. By analogy, you don't care about the lives of a bunch of flies, but if they buzz around in your face, you will swat them. Same with the daimons. They really don't care about humans, but if they do something annoying or threatening, they will nevertheless kill them. It has nothing to do with sensitivity. It has everything to do with indifferent destruction as a natural reaction.
Secondly, no one said you had to fight a GM faction. In fact, it was made pretty clear I believe that Dwilight is absolutely not an Invasionesque continent where you have to fight GM-controlled daimons. That doesn't mean you can't if you really decide you want to poke the sleeping lion. But again, that's a result of human decisions. There are actually a lot of other things you can do with the daimons, and I'm not just speaking on my own here. You can ask some other people who have managed "deals" with the daimons before.
To give a better idea of how it works, understand that dealing with the daimons will raise your blood pressure because you will get frustrated. Look, my blood pressure gets raised too because not only do I deal with daimons I have to take an earful from frustrated humans as well. But some people persist and get something. It's all about how much you want what you desire and how far you're willing to go to gain it. If a bunch of words you don't like can already put you off your ambitions, then I guess they weren't strong enough to warrant a deal with daimons in the first place. Yeah, the tone can often be condescending/whatever, but hey, it happens often, especially in real life.
And yes, I know that Asylon had its "treaty" broken. But that is just another example of humancentric thinking. I know as well that some people think the goal of the daimons is to create vassal states, and that is definitely not the case. They have their Zuma already, and that is pretty much good enough for them. Yes, there are goals for the current batch of humans, but Haktoo's not like Overlord, going around saying "Serve me or die".
On the other hand, I am still astounded at the pride of many humans. Is it really that hard to say "I'm sorry"?
I feel like I've stated the obvious again. But then the question is: If it's all so obvious, why do people so consistently fail in those regards...for three years now?