Well hmm, never really seen it that way myself after the recent changes. I thought that changed the way we were supposed to perceive things.
At any rate, if we're only discussing my personal character, for those that know my character from Luria I'm not so sure what they would say about his dedication to oaths anyway. Then again, IC and OOC I see it completely differently, but hey its a game.
What makes you think it is different after the changes? You could always change realm without an estate oath at any rate, just had to travel to the capital.