I have five active characters because I donate to the game, not because I have some sort of deal going on with the GMs.
The 'restrictions against Thulsoma' were made because they were exploiting loopholes in the family wealth code, and they are imposed on everyone in the game, not just them.
Hordes don't 'disappear and reappear', whoever gave you that idea is a moron.
Not sure what you mean with the Darfix colony, but from what I know of it, they failed because they could not bear with the difficulties of colonizing an isolated city. And they are just one of many failed colonies on Dwilight. Nothing to do with GMs.
Multi cheaters are dealt with no matter which realm they hide in, whether it be Sirion, Thulsoma or any other. If you suspect multi cheating is happening, then file a report with the Titans and provide whatever proof you have, and if they are found guilty, they /will/ be dealt with. If the GMs passed arbitrary judgement against multies, then believe me, Thulsoma/Averoth would have experienced a lightning storm of epic proportions by now.
Avamar was punished because of rampant OOC cheating. Generally, if Tom himself has to step in, then you did more than enough to deserve it.
The changes in growth are game-wide, they were a long time in the making, and they affect every realm in the game, not just Astrum.
And as a final note, don't cry about Titan interference every time something goes bad for your realm. Thulsoma owe their downfall entirely to themselves, not the Titans.