If you're really all that pragmatic, then I'm really having a hard time seeing what the point is of your continuing to hold out.
At this point, there are basically 2 possibilities:
1) D'Hara makes peace, Luria destroys LV, we go kill Aurvandil
2) Luria destroys LV, D'Hara makes peace so we can go kill Aurvandil
So why do you insist upon delaying the inevitable?
why do you want to make war with Aurvandil? I see little reason to jump on the band wagon with the rest of the continent when you could just lick your wounds while everyone else loses manpower
