Samboji, you can't play a character who acts like a yokel and expect to be treated the same as characters who act like high nobility.
You also can't attempt to intrigue against the General, get caught, and expect to be privy to all the preparations for war. Especially having first set up your character as a yokel.
I did, in fact, try to warn you about your RP style some time ago, but you seemed to feel it was more important to RP this particular style than to have a character who is respected and liked by the local nobility.
If you weren't so annoyed by the relatively obvious consequences of your actions, I would laud you for sticking to an unpopular RP style. As it is, you just look like you want to have your cake and eat it too.
Sha'shanti would have a much better time on most other continents, where consistent RP of any kind tends to be rewarded. (And she should totally get together with a Driscol somewhere and make a BattleMaster version of Clueless!)