So to make sure I understand:
19:30 ago (6.5 hours before the turn): Allomere says "I expect to see you on the road to Fields within the hour"
18:30 ago (5.5 hours before the turn): Fal'Cie says "You have left it quite late in the night to be giving orders for a force deployment; "
18:00 ago (5 hours before the turn): Allomere says "I expect to see you in Fields by morn"
13:00 ago: The sun comes up for morning turn.
So the events are as follows:
Fal'cie insults Sarit suggesting that he/she shouldn't need help against monsters
Allomere to punish Fal'cie sends him alone into battle
Fal'cie refuses to follow orders
Allomere says that he expects Fal'cie to be there by morning.
Inactivity isn't relevant here, Fal'cie is definately OOC able to follow the orders as he responded to refuse.
