Well, I'm just a newcomer but I've followed with interest this topic. My opinion probably worth less than the time you spend reading it, but hey, talk is cheap and I would like to give it a try 
Of course realms come and go and the regions they owned change of rulers, but D'Hara was (I don't know for how long) ruler of Paisly until the new colony was founded. They're in their right to fight to get it back, as any other realm has the right to support or fight this decision.
It's also my opinion that the more different realms there are, the more fun and diversity we can enjoy. But as I've read, Asylon has supported the Province for the sake of this diversity while it has become a huge hegemony in Dwilight. Something is missing here 
http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/HegemonyAsylon is not a huge hegemony... It is not even a hegemony.
Im not going to say anything anymore I sense the sharks are going to come out and argue with everything I say for the next few pages...
