Yeah, anyone can over simplify anything to try and fail to make a point
Why not say there is no difference between being aggressive and defensive because both involve some form of confrontation? "There's no difference in being attacked, and being the one attacked, because in one situation there's some kind of confrontation involved and in the other, you are involved in some kind of confrontation."
Ask the ones being conquered whether they think there's a difference.
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"The only thing you can't trade for your heart's desire...is your heart." "You are what you do. Choose again, and change." "One of these days, someone's gonna plug you, and you're going to die saying, 'What did I say? What did I say?'" ~ Miles Naismith Vorkosigan