Kicked out? I was banned for standing up for the elders of Shadovar and speaking out against the D'Haran Dragon lords for their disrespect to the gentry of Shadovar after the revolution. My ban was later lifted once D'Hara realized that they were wrong. If D'Hara hadn't of done that I would never have made it to where I am now, history would have been very different!
I disagreed with D'Hara's initial secession, but the "elders of Shadovar" were just failing utterly at leading a realm properly. Then the judge went and banned a duchess for no good reason, forcing her to secede...
Also, I don't see any entry of D'Hara in your family page... something's missing?