Doesn't discussing a player's offense conflict with using the Magistrates as a threat?
If I discuss with a player how their recent action conflicts with a Magistrate ruling, that is exactly what I'm doing...
Most frequent case of talking about the issue with the player should be done would most likely be with when you are offended. While you should take care to not offend anyone, you may do it on accident in which case those who are offended should contact you first that you are offending them, then if they continue they now know they are being offensive so it is a good idea to report it to the magistrates. (My apologies for saying you instead of something else, its just easier for me)
