I think I have fewer fame points than I'm supposed to based on my reading of the wiki page. According to my offices, events and attributes, I should have 10 fame points, but I only have 7. http://wiki.battlemaster.org/wiki/Buffalkill_Family#Fame
OK, first obvious problem I see there: You're double-counting two fame points.
Each fame point can only ever be gained once.
If you could gain the individual Prestige fame for every character, then fame farming would be as easy as creating a character, getting him up to 10 prestige, then deleting him.Every fame point is unique. You can never, ever gain the same fame point more than once.
Second, very slightly less obvious problem: Outcast isn't a point you get for being banned. It's a point you get for being banned
a lot. (And it's clear from your family history that Johan only has 1 ban.)
