sorry I didn't log much these days and didn't see the replies..
yes Anaris your screenshot is perfect. I meant a symbol or something near the character name (not the player real gender) in order to avoid a common error addressing someone as "Sir" whe she's a Lady.
If it's simple to implement it'd be useful, but if it's a mess for whatever reason it's fine to check clicking on [userdetails] link, no problem