And people say there is no power struggle. The only way there is no a power struggle is because It was decided be other means than people telling Erik: "The region is mine, you crazy old Duke, I will not leave. !@#$ you and your orders" or the Judge saying: "Then try to win and put me out of position, you jerk!!!". I never saw any of this before wake up and realize I did something terrible wrong and was blocked.
Erik sent a request, when the Lord ignored, he considered it a power struggle. In his world, a vassal must obey him. When he ignored, Erik sent an order to him and a threat to the Council. I can be blamed by the "placeholder thing", but if you cannot see a power struggle here, I cannot see anything besides that... a power struggle: "You're on my way, leave or I will make you leave.". It's all about power. Wrong? Well, as it seems, yes. But about power.
It's hard to deal with these ambiguities and know how to proceed in relation to tournaments, placeholders, recruitment: "You can do that way, but NEVER that way". When you fall in a gray area, you immediately become a criminal and a yellow message makes you look like an outcast who suddenly does not deserve your position in the realm where he has served since ever.